Background: My August preaching weekend at Christ Church Easton gave me Luke 12:13-21, where Jesus tells the Parable of the Rich Fool, who wants to build bigger barns to store all his stuff. Following is the text of my sermon.
âLive Now What Matters Foreverâ
There is a lot going on in todayâs Gospel reading that gets my mind and my heart churning.
Someone in the crowd says to Jesus, “Teacher, tell my brother to divide the family inheritance with me.”
And Jesusâs answer may seem for our day and time like one of the most un-Jesus responses we can imagine:
“Friend, who set me to be a judge or arbitrator over you?”
Some followers of Jesus today like to lift absolutely everything up for Jesus to help us to make our decisions, to settle our disputes.
But Jesus may say to us sometimes, âThat sounds like âyour problem.â That sounds like something you guys are going to have to figure out for yourselves.â
Certainly, this nameless person from the crowd has his own self-interest in mind and wants to get the teacher he looks up to, to weigh in on his side, to tell his brother to give him some money and some land.
It may astonish us that in dealing with family matters, Jesusâs answer to us might be, âFriend, who set me to be a judge or arbitrator over you?â
Not the answer we were hoping for.
One of the reasons Jesus doesnât have an interest in answering this question or settling this dispute is that he sees it is leading the person, his brother, and the crowd in a bad direction. If this is the kind of question you really want to spend your time with Jesus going through, youâve got a bigger problem.
Greed and hoarding possessions are not going to help you. And then Jesus does one of the most Jesus things he does when asked questions.
He says, âLet me tell you a storyâŚâ
I love that Jesusâs answer to some of the most vexing questions and profound problems when the crowds press him for answers is⌠âLet me tell you a story.â
Franciscan and author Richard Rohr says:
âThe way Jesus usually answers questions is by telling a story. There is creative and healing power in a story. It doesnât avoid the question, it goes to the root of the question⌠Thatâs the way the great masters of religion always taughtâby simply telling stories and giving the soul room to grow and understand.â
If Jesus gives them an answer, they are done thinking about the matter. It doesnât help them grow; it doesnât help them understand the deeper currents that are underneath the question.
Jesusâs parables work on us. They stick with us. And their meanings move around for us.
Teacher of preachers Tom Long wrote a book on Jesusâs parables and the word he uses for parable is âriddle.â Long says:
âOne of the best definitions of parable is: riddle. A parable is a riddle, there is some puzzle to be solved, some enigma to be plumbed. And the thing about Jesusâs parables, just when you think youâve got it⌠a trap door opens and you fall down into a deeper level of mystery. By the way, I think insufficient attention is given to the fact that we serve a Jesus whose favorite method of teaching was not rule, law, spiritual truth, principle, but riddle⌠All this is to say, that parables, and particularly Jesusâs parables arenât clear, cut and dry, and donât lend themselves to a quick and easy interpretation, or they wouldnât be doing their job.â

Jesus told them this story, this riddle:
The land of a rich man produced abundantly. And he thought to himself, `What should I do, for I have nowhere to store my crops?’ Then he said, `Iâve got an idea: I will pull down my barns and build bigger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. And I will say to my soul, `Soul, you have plenty of goods laid up for many years; relax, eat, drink, be merry.’
But God said to him, `You fool! This very night your life is being demanded of you. And the things you have prepared, whose will they be?’
If our most pressing question of Jesus is to solve our inheritance problems, to solve our financial problems, Jesus says, Iâve got a warning for youâyou might be focusing on the wrong things. Itâs not that money isnât important, but it can cause us to lose focus on the biggest things in life⌠which includes the fact that we donât know how much time we have in this life.
I absolutely love how Richard Rohr brings this parable and this reading to a point. He says:
ââLive now what matters in eternityâ is Jesusâs message. Live on earth whatâs happening in heaven⌠Thatâs the kingdom: live now what matters forever.â
LIVE NOW WHAT MATTERS FOREVER. Thereâs your bumper sticker or your t-shirt from todayâs Gospel. There is something to tape to your mirror or above your coffeemaker, or somewhere youâll see it every morning when you wake up.
There is a poet named Maggie Smith whose work I am a big fan of. She always seems to bring big issues and questions into the here-and-now in ways that stick with me. When she posts on social media, sheâll often use the heading âLife latelyâ and include a bunch of pictures and captions of whatâs been going on with her.
âLife latelyâ for me has been Clinical and Pastoral EducationâRev. Kelsey and I have three weeks left out of our 16-week programthat is our last requirement to be ordained as priests. In my experience, seminary helps train your brain, CPE helps mold your heart.
Sitting with and opening myself up to strangers, and sometimes friends, who are in the hospital, softens my heart in ways that I couldnât have predicted.
Last week at the Easton Hospital, I checked in on an older gentleman who was eating his lunch. I introduced myself as the chaplain for the day, and he said, âWhat denomination are you?â I said, âEpiscopal.â He said, âGood, thatâs the only good one!â
Over the next hour he told me his entire life story: father died when he was nine, military school, jobs he had, marriages, divorces, kids dying, mistakes he made, luck he has had, good times, bad times, and when he was wrapping things up he said, âNow youâve heard my confession.â
Sometimes visits go that way. I get a sense of someone who is in the hospital, in some cases they are lonely, they are stuck in bed in a place they would rather not be and their main interaction is with medical staff who are responsible for a whole lot of people and donât have time to address things like loneliness, anxiety, fear; they donât have time to hear someoneâs story; to come alongside them and be present with them for a few minutes, for an hour.
The time we spend together matters. A personsitting in the hospital can feel seen and heard and human, even if just for a little while.
LIVE NOW WHAT MATTERS FOREVER.

During the announcements, my friend Jack Anthony is going to tell you a story about Stephen Ministry. Stephen Ministry is a program that became a part of Christ Church in 2005 and that trains people to walk beside someone going through a difficult time in their lives. There are more than 100 people in our congregation over these last 20 years who have responded to a call in their hearts to learn to be more loving, more empathetic, more compassionate; to be better listeners, and to make themselves available for people who are hurting. Last year, my wife Holly went through the training and became a Stephen Minister. And the whole experience has blessed her in amazing ways. They are offering the next training this fall. Maybe it is something that speaks to you.
What I am learning in CPE and what you learn through becoming a Stephen Minister is very similar. How to listen. How to be present. What love looks like when the conditions arenât perfect.
These are not skills or experience that apply only to visiting a hospital or spending time with a care receiver.
âLife lately.â I helped with a celebration of life on Friday for a man and family I have known since I was in elementary school. The manâs name was Ed Bishop, one of the kindest human beings I have ever met. People got up and told stories. A neighbor pointed out that even after almost 60 years married, Ed and his wife Wendy wouldnât feed the birds without each other because they loved doing it together. The number of people there Friday who were in their late 50âs and showed up with their families who said that they learned what unconditional love and kindness were from being friends with the Bishopsâ two sons and seeing these qualitieson full display from their parents. Ed Bishop lived now what matters forever and showed people what that looks like.
At the service, I got to catch up with a number of long-time friends who I hadnât seen in quite a while. My daughters are 23 and 20 years old. Some of my friends have younger kids and Iâve heard a few times lately, âit must be nice to have your kids out from under, working, not needing you all the time.â
I look back at the years when the girls were under foot, and it takes a lot of time and energy to get through all of that. But I found that most of the problems that they had then, I could fix. I could do something about. Tie a shoe. Clean a cut and put a Band-Aid on it. Drive them to school. Decide who got to pick the movie they would watch.
The problems the girls have now, I canât fix. I canât solve for them. Heartbreak, relationships,loneliness, anxiety. Epilepsy. Seizures. These things above my pay grade.
You know what I have found that I can offer? Time. Presence. Love. I can be there. I can listen. I can come alongside them. We can do life together.
We can live now what matters forever.
Each of us has that chance every day. If Jesus had continued his parable, his story, and given us an alternative to building bigger barns, Iâd bet it would be a story of showing love and care to people who need it. Thatâs the kingdom Jesus wants to help us build.























